KAREN KELLOCK: MALE AND FEMALE ARE OPPPOSITES AND THANK GOD THEY ARE

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THE  CONTAGION

 OF  MADNESS

System Origins of the Female Hysterical Outburst and Why They Get Sick in Relationships. But Alpha Females Can Adapt to Manly Men.  

How He Keeps Her Down, How She Keeps Him Down, How the Herd Keeps Us Down.

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The Pathological Patterns by Karen Kellock Ph.D.

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Karen Kellock on horseback in a desert ghost town

 CHAPTERS  NEW  PERSONAL SOLITUDE EXCERPTS

SYSTEM    ELIMINATION   ENVIRONMENT

FORMULA

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PICKING A MATE

When picking a mate don't choose some idiot who's into social hebephrenia--being a fake, trying to get some underling's approval, bragging, making up conversation as if he's needy for people! He will turn on you because he doesn't know who he is and is socially hypnotized to think he is inferior to the herd.  How embarrassing if you have a mate like this, but if so,  simply educate him to hold his head up high and simply  tell the truth.   SILENCE is our science, being universal not parochial.  A true genius not a fool or someone's mule.    "Social hebephrenia" is bumbling loquacity, while true genius is clear-sighted audacity (that's his fuel)

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The tremendous energy you're born with is  meant for your destiny, but was blocked--creating a template repeated through  life.  As energy bottles up it recurrently explodes, but if released through self-expression it's WORLD SUCCESS (ending this  mess).   Most people think you can be a success just by being born, and that's not true.  You become a champion by overcoming obstruction to find the True You.  And that's why True Genius is so few.

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THE CONTAGION OF MADNESS:

The Psychology of Neurotic Interaction

"Zvengali:  Isolation-Labeled-'Concern".  Zvengali relationships can be had with anyone and all work on the same principle: To maintain the system by increasing the need for it.  The Zvengali isolates his victims by telling all and then calling it "concern".  Then he says "everyone is rejecting you but me".  When others reject her for the pathetic influence behind the scenes, she sees him as "psychic" and loves her protector more. 

"Just for Two Minutes"   Unable to believe he's killing her, she thinks others are trying to and needs him--her savior and protector--all the more.  When she musters the strength to leave he says "just let me see you for two minutes"

Mrs. Social Charm:  True Genius is clearsighted audacity.  Neurosis is:  bumbling audacity.  Trying not to ruffle feathers, but doing just that in blindness, is the ongoing problem of all neurotics and Mrs. Social Charm.

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Before starting this new website there are other things we should discuss (to prevent a fuss).  As is the case with anorexics, Savant-Autistics, melancholy poets, reclusive artists, suicidal hermits or  ANAS  (mature recovered anorexics who remain  hyper-sensitive and reclusive)  some people are just too sensitive to adapt to autocratic  males.   There can be a  sharpness to the militaristic personality that's like living  in a grenade-range. I do admire the military  but  my adaptation was  another problem altogether:  we're talking  stormy weather.  I often wanted to die and all I did was cry.  Here's some methods I used to stay married enthused rather than exhausted, sick and confused:

Besides establishing your own interests, watch your diet.  Being sensitive, starches and sugar (even too much fructose) is dangerously body-distorting, constipating, candida-forming and depressing.  Respect your finely-tuned instrument which can't eat like the others.   I had to stick to non-sweet fruit, animal  fat and buttered vegetables.  I enjoyed raw power shakes with milk and bananas; tomatoes and avocados in the blender (tomavo), or buttered cruciform (broccoli, cauliflower) and I constrain to eating once or twice a day.  To be happy stay in  fasting consciousness.  The higher the diet (paleo-fastarian)  the more joy  remains, the more you'll stay nice  and  creative ( that is,  sane).  Also get into SUN, just a spot  is fine:  stretch out each day for a  time.  You'll elongate and gentle-ize (the personality becomes kind).   Take walks in the sun and look around.  Remember the only goal which is sound:  happy marriage not marital depression  the sadly scary  merry-go-round.

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TWO SUGGESTED DVDS ABOUT HYPER-SENSITIVE  FEMALES AND THEIR  ADAPTATION TO  MANLY MEN:

STREETCAR NAMES DESIRE

GASLIGHT

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Keep your face in the bible opening it up anywhere.  Jesus knew all about human persecution and was killed by it.  He loves and cares for the plight of females in a male world where the dominant reality  is male.  Pray to Jesus throughout the day while your people-problems persist--I do when wondering if  it's  the  Devil I kissed.  It wasn't so much Mr. Great  but the dominant male  view  that hissed.  Keep your focus on PSALMS and PROVERBS, so you can see what is what, right and wrong.

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But the female needs the male so understand before you  set sail  for when the honeymoon is over brides start to wale (I did too but was determined not to fail).  For Mr. Great had so much to give but my mal-adaptations were making things  worse and in extreme sensitivity it felt like a curse.  I couldn't ask for  better but I was mal-adapting and many of you feel just the same:  Vibrant at first soon you're mentally lame.  You want to go back from whence you came and marriage seems a sham and a shame.

Do your work with all diligence and protect your charges from male abuse (I mean "discipline") so that  female gentleness and tenderness reigns, after all you  create the home (it's to you he complains).  The home is our bio-environment, for Man is an ADAPTIVE animal.  He adapts to his environment and you're going to create it  (when it's insane he'll be  insane).  But if you maintain the clean order of Harriet Craig (the movie's  negative portrayal of which  turned women against home-making) no matter what's going on the outer your family  stays  happy.  The home should be a pleasant island in the Sea of Sharks--make the grounds into beautiful parks and love the jerk no matter how much he barks.   He knows he's a mean creep but needs you in his sleep!  The path to connubial bliss is steep but with perseverance this Union God will keep.

God hates divorce and you don't want to be on his bad side (just to Him  confide).  Trust no man the Bible says and I agree--restrain yourself from a gossiping spree when un-free in the deep dark marital sea.  Just get into your own reality (take a walk, go to your  cabin or pet a dog or cat).  Wait a while so he can self-confront  (see himself as a rat).  I say WAIT--for we're all flawed sinners open  to rile after we walk down the aisle.  Let your fantasies of married life go, and know:  that All Men Are  Sinners from Adam to Now.

Even if he hits you stay forgiving and kind.  I know that sounds masochistic but if you stay a lady (i.e. quiet, orderly and refined) the man will turn around and be loving (you'll be wined and dined).  Women are no longer ladies of the historical kind, but  to a man it's a real find, rarer than rubies (he'll no longer resent the chains that bind).  It's all because women have become manly, cluttered, cheap and immoral that man becomes abusive (cruel and blind).  All men are sinners but he'll  TRANSFORM and be so grateful that for his whole life it  was with you  he signed.

   MARRIAGE IS  TRUE  FREEDOM but...

Persevere so life can come together as a jigsaw puzzle.  Melancholy and depression is part of adaptation to cruel  circumstances.  The problem is everyone is split from early trauma or identity conflict which is projected onto others.  This split can be healed through marriage but it takes tenacity, faith  and endurance. Mr. Great  and I have two cabins and we spend a lot of creative time apart.  I take long nature walks and look out the window while thinking of God--what a lark!   While with liberals or other degrading systems  I lose my center and start to cry (I never know why) until again alone on my unique throne.  This comes from twenty years in solitude and resources gathered therein. Understanding this Mr. beautified and upgraded each cabin.  To make a happy marriage you must maintain your own realities and this complementary fit is where God sits, amen!  For He designed marriage between man and wife (only in this era do we see such strife).

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  Reactions to

 The Contagion of Madness:  

 

1Women eat because they get no real love:  sex and love is handed out conditionally by the male who easily withdraws all affections to "punish" or "discipline" the female.  A woman can either EAT at this and get fat, or she can grow up and realize that his withdrawal of affections IS the divorce.  Marriage is love not hate. The bible warns us about letting the sun go down in our anger--things could really boomerang by morn' and you gotta know love comes first.  If the female's got a love thirst it's husband's job to fill it.   PEW Trenton

2 I agree there's a harshness, bite, meanness and loudness to manly males that is too much for us anas who are feminine.  We are alone because of this. i am 55 and have been single all my life.  I don't have female friends (that i can trust) and men keep me on the edge.  i don't like men because they are cruel and unkind--oh, they are kind for a while and then suddenly BANG they become bastards in a loud voice again.  Keep up the good work. Ana Belle KK friend forever.

3Thank you so much  for this.  i  was so fed up with the harshness of my husband and he even hit me.  I started divorce proceedings, but then I read this.  i changed and became a lady and I got into my own thing. We are very happy now and i have you to thank for this. you took me out of the phony feminist generation all around me and put me back where I belong--in the coziness of my own home which i am making like Rome.  My husband has truly changed and I know if i stay refind he'll be all mine.  We love our marriage now.

4How naive men seem to be! What they need to know is despite their heroic lovemaking, one disrespectful word later is enough to nullify the whole experience, turning  it into dirt.  But of course  a man would never know that hurt.  You apparently think females should put up with man's terrible tempers and just forget it like it never happened!  Forgiveness is not forgetting---Hanny from Ohio 

5The reason women don't want sex from hubby is cuz he makes life pure hell otherwise. This website is about a spiritual life not man's prurient needs so I look forward to knowledge about solitude--that is, euphoria when fasting and free of people problems.  Jhv 

6Men speak so much about marital sex as if its utopia.  But do you realize how men become cold afterwards.  This is called post-orgasmic withdrawal (pow wives) and women sense it on very deep levels.  Then they speak of forgiveness.  hah.  A woman will forgive a man's violence of smashing things yet a man will repeat her bad remarks a 1000 times to drive it in how bad she is.  I think they don't have a clue and i am looking forward to your new  website spelling out how to get free of this  mayhem.  The Contagion of Madness is what I need to know about.  Nicola Frebrera, Brazil

7This is going to be truly great, original, audacious and true as everything you do.  I'm so glad you've gone back to your original work on systems theory--how people drive each other crazy.  Your friend Tom (congrats on your new marriage).

8Whenever my husband and I argue he yells out loud in front of the neighbors to degrade me.  I have told him i hate this but he never learns and always uses it again.  I had to move out just to save my reputation.  i think this is the lowest tactic a man could ever use against a woman.  This man knows nothing about privacy--except protecting his own, of course.  He is as lowdown as they come.  Mary

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